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\nClassic Sex Positions<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Classic-Sex-Positions.jpg?w=300\")
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\nModified Coital-Alignment Technique<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/modified-coital-01.png?w=300\")
\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nEssentially an upgraded version of missionary, the Coital Alignment Technique position<\/a> (aka CAT) is a face-to-face position that involves the penetrating partner moving up and down rather than in and out. For this elevated variation, the receiving partner lays on their back. Then, the penetrating partner enters from above.\u00a0<\/p>\nThe key word here? Above. The penetrating partner needs to shift their weight forward so that their penis or dildo presses all along the external vulva rather than going right for the glory holes.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> Once in position, the penetrator should avoid thrusting and instead focus on moving their hips in circles. This simultaneously massages the internal erogenous zones in the vagina (like the G-spot) as well the clitoral glans. Meanwhile, the receiving partner should experiment with tilting their hips at various angles, as well as wrapping their legs around their lover\u2019s back.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nDoggy Style<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/doggy-style-sex-position.jpg?w=300\")
\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nAs far as rear-entry sex positions go, doggy style is top dog. For this classic, the receiving partner gets on all fours while the penetrating partner stands or kneels behind them and goes to town. From here, the receiving partner can \u2018cat-cow\u2019 their pelvis to facilitate pressure against their most sensitive hot-spots, while the penetrating partner can use their hands to grip, grab, or grope to their heart\u2019s content.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> On the physical front, the doggy style allows for easy to the G-spot (shallow penetration) or A-spot (deeper penetration), depending on the exact angle. Plus, the receiving partner is perfectly positioned to stimulate their clit with their hand or vibe. Meanwhile, emotionally and mentally, the bestial position can be arousing because it often feels more intense and less restrained.\u00a0<\/p>\nNot to mention, there are a lot of modifications to give the giver and receiver something they\u2019ll enjoy, such as anal doggy, flat doggy, and wheelbarrow.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n
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\nPushing Tush<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/pushing-tush-03.png?w=300\")
\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nButt-lovers rejoice! The Pushing Tush, sometimes known as rear-entry missionary, is a sex position that makes the back door the star of the show. You\u2019ll assume the missionary position, but rather than the vagina being the point of entry, the anus will be.\u00a0<\/p>\n
To facilitate the angle of entry, the bottom partner should put a sex pillow under their hips. Alternatively, the bottom can plant their feet into the mattress and then actively tilt their hips up and press their spine into the ground, which will open the anal canal.\u00a0<\/p>\n
In case it needs to be said, lube is an absolute must here. The anal canal is never self-lubricating in the way the vagina often is. So, to reduce uncomfortable friction and facilitate that feel-good slide-and-glide, you\u2019ll want to lather the insertive body part or toy with lubricant and use a lube shooter to coat the inner canal.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> This is a solid choice if either partner has expressed interest in playing around with anal penetration in an intimate way. A suitable position for both anal with a penis and dildo (aka pegging), this face-to-face position allows the penetrating partner to read their partner\u2019s facial cues for additional insight on comfort.\u00a0<\/p>\nIf both partners want to enjoy anal penetration at the same time, consider having the top partner plop in a vibrating butt plug or prostate massager ahead of entry.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n
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\nRocking Horse<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/rocking-horse-sex-position.jpg?w=300\")
\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nThe Rocking Horse will become your new fave for G-spot stimulation<\/a> and intimate eye-contact. In this position, the receiving partner sits between the penetrating partner\u2019s legs, with the receiving partner\u2019s legs just short of wrapped around them (but you can modify for that if you want to go full Koala!).<\/p>\nWhy It\u2019s Great: <\/strong>With Rocking Horse, both partners rock into each other, which gives you a lot of room to control the depth of penetration while also holding each other super close. It can be as gentle or as sexy (or a combo of both!) as you like.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nSeated Scissors<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/seated-scissors.png?w=300\")
\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nThink of seated scissors as a play on reverse cowgirl \u2014 and we mean\u00a0play,<\/em> because this position is a fun one. The penetrating partner lies on their back with one leg bent while the receiving partner gets on top, straddling their bent leg and arranging their legs however feels comfortable. There\u2019s plenty of support up top and lots of room for both partners to experiment.<\/p>\nWhy It\u2019s great: <\/strong>Seated scissors is truly fun for everyone. While the receiving partner gets to bounce, bump, and grind to their heart\u2019s content on top, the penetrating partner can relax and enjoy the great view.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nSpooning<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/1spooning-sex-position.jpg?w=300\")
\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nParticularly on slow mornings, there are few things that hit like a morning tussle with your partner. The Spooning (yes, like the cuddling position) invites the penetrating partner to step into the big spoon role and enter their partner vaginally or anally from behind.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> Skin, skin, and more skin is the name of the game with spooning sex. This ultra-intimate position is a great way to seamlessly transition from loving cuddles to making love. Best of all, your hands remain free for touch and clitoral stimulation.\u00a0<\/p>\nOh, and when you\u2019re all done, there\u2019s not much else to do but snuggle up and fall back asleep for a while. (But remember to pee after sex. Nobody wants a UTI<\/a> over here.)<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nScissoring<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/SK_SexPositions_Scissoring.jpg?w=213\")
\t<\/figure>\nScissoring may be a classic lesbian position, but this grinding sex position can be enjoyed by two people of any gender, sex, or sexuality. Start by laying your heads opposite one another. From here, you have options. You can straddle one another\u2019s legs, grinding up against each other\u2019s calves or knees to apply feel-good pressure to your pubic mound and genitals. Or, you can shimmy upward until you are genital-to-genital,\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> This sex position, which can be enjoyed by a wide range of body types, genders, and sexual configurations, is an excellent reminder that penetration isn\u2019t the be-all and end-all of sex. By making external stimulation the main focus, scissoring can help individuals achieve vulvar or penile stimulation in a new way.\u00a0<\/p>\nAs a bonus, because there is no genital-to-genital contact in the first variation of this sex position, there is a much lower risk of STI transmission.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n
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\nBend Over, Baby<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/olqx1qfbx57j7kbdfqsm.jpeg?w=300\")
\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Becci Burkhart\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nThis shallow-penetration position<\/a> makes a smaller penis feel just right. Bent over at a 90-degree angle, the receiving partner can experiment with tilting their pelvis to find the perfect hot spot.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nScissors<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/l3pyed7lsoa5vaz4ufta.jpeg?w=300\")
\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Becci Burkhart\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nIf your partner has a thicker penis, the Scissors position is the way to go. You\u2019ll lie on your sides, facing each other, with your heads on opposite sides of the bed. The receving partner straddles one of their partner\u2019 and slips one leg up to open up and allow for penetration. The friction and the hot position will keep you both feeling fireworks from start to finish.<\/p>\n
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\nNon-Penetrative Sex Positions<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Non-Penetrative-Sex-Positions_.jpg?w=300\")
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\nUncloak the Clitoris<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/06-unleash-the-clit.png?w=300\")
\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nClitoral stimulation \u2014 not penetration \u2014 is the name of the game with the Uncloak the Clitoris sex position. This handsy sex position involves one partner using their fingers to stimulate their lover\u2019s glans clitoris, which is the tip of the iceberg of the clitoral structure which actually extends far back into the body.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Bringing this clit-focused sex position to life is going to require a decent bit of communication. The reason? Not all vulva owners like their genitals touched the same. Whether you give this sensitive part of the body love by tapping it, pressing it, circling it, or another form of touch altogether, should depend on the receiver\u2019s preferences.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Similarly, while some people enjoy having their clit touched through direct stimulation, other people need to buffer the intensity by wearing underwear or layering their labia over the love bud. With that, it\u2019s important to ask your partner what they like before bee-lining to the glans.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> The vast majority of people with vulvas can\u2019t orgasm from penetration alone. In fact, research<\/a> has found that 70 percent of women find sex more pleasurable and\/or more orgasmic when clitoral stimulation is part of sexual play. Given that, this hand-sex position can be a great way to help get your partner off.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\nAdditionally, because this position requires so much communication, it can encourage you to talk about your needs in and out of the bedroom, which can benefit your relationship overall.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n
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\nBaring the Scepter<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/baring-the-scepter.png?w=300\")
\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nCreative copulators, this one\u2019s for you. The Baring the Scepter involves DIY-ing a vibrating penis ring. How? With your fingers.\u00a0<\/p>\n
For this sex position, either partner will form a ring with their thumb and forefinger around the base of the penis and slightly pull down so the skin of the shaft is taut. If they can keep their hand there during intercourse, it\u2019s a sure way to make the penis in question harder and more sensitive.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> Store-bought penis rings are widely lauded for their ability to slow blood flow out of the penis, resulting in a stiffy that is harder and longer lasting. This toy-free version, which can help achieve a similar outcome, is accessible to those who don\u2019t have a penis ring on hand.\u00a0<\/p>\nIt\u2019s worth noting that while this particular position is geared towards improving erectile function, a rock-hard erection isn\u2019t necessary for pleasurable oral or hand sex.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n
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\nSelf-Loving (On Your Knees)<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/on-your-knees.png?w=300\")
\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nWhether you\u2019re flying solo or are showing your partner some of what you like, a solid go-to masturbation position (like grinding on a firm pillow or a toy) can be an excellent way to heighten pleasure. Set a rhythm that works and go to town.<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great: <\/strong>Straddling said pillow (or your lover\u2019s thigh, go off) makes this position is great for people with vulvas to get the friction they really want. It\u2019s a super simple yet effective position, especially if you don\u2019t have a cache of toys or tools at your disposal.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nQueening in Bondage<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/queening-in-bondage.png?w=300\")
\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nYou may know this position by its other less SFW name \u2014 \u201cface sitting\u201d \u2014 but Queening in Bondage is when a partner recieves oral stimulation while resting on or above their partner\u2019s mouth. Your weight can mostly held by your knees and thighs, so don\u2019t get too wound up about \u201ccrushing\u201d your partner \u2014 just make sure they feel comfortable communicating how much pressure is good from you on top!<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great: <\/strong>The power switch of this position is so enticing, and receiving partners will love getting to set the pace and pressure. Adding restraint play to position is yet another way to up the sensation and intensity of the scene or sexual encounter, allowing the receiving partner to really own the power of the pose (as pictured here) or offering an equally sexy subversion if you switch places.\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nElevated Sex Positions<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Elevated-Sex-Positions_.jpg?w=300\")
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\nCountertop<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/04-counter-top.png?w=300\")
\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nAs its apt name suggests, this sex position is to facilitate your sweeping-off-the-countertop (or desk) fantasies. The Countertop sex position can utilize just about any flat surface that is the right height for the penetrating partner. Find a sturdy surface and have the receiving partner lay or sit down. Then, get to work.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great<\/strong>: To start, the Countertop sex position allows you to act out some of your hot-hot-hot sexual fantasies in the kitchen, office, or board room. It also frees up both partners\u2019 hands for nipple and clitoral stimulation, hair pulling, or any other types of love touches.\u00a0<\/p>\nFor the record: This position also works well for cunnilingus. The only difference is that during the oral sex variation, the giving partner will kneel before their partner, not stand.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n
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\nHappy Scissors<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/05-happy-scissors.png?w=300\")
\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nBecause three is a lucky number, here\u2019s one additional sex position that\u2019s excellent for any flat surface. As with the previous two positions, the Happy Scissors set-up involves the receiving partner lying on a hip-height surface while the penetrating partner stands before them. The difference is that the laying partner should splay their legs and point their toes to the ceiling.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> The open-legged position that marks Happy Scissors is seriously erotic. When on their back, the bottom partner essentially welcomes their partner to gaze into and fill their wide, open hole(s). The energy of this set-up can be exceptionally arousing for those interested in playing with power dynamics in bed, as the receiving position is a submission one.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\nAlso: This position gives access to all sorts of erogenous zones down the legs and feet. Who knows, maybe Happy Scissors is the excuse you\u2019ve been waiting for to try toe-sucking in bed.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n
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\nThe Butterfly<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/the-butterfly-position-02.png?w=300\")
\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nIf your sexual motto is that deeper is better, the butterfly sex position is for you. This half-standing, half-laying sex position involves the receiving partner laying back on a slightly elevated surface (think: bed, table, countertop). Then, positioning their heels over the shoulder of the penetrating partner, who should assume an athletic stance before them before sliding in.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> The Butterfly offers the standing partner a serious eye-full, making it ideal for visual learners. Meanwhile, the angle of the lying partner\u2019s hips allows them to achieve cervical stimulation. Not to mention, their hands are free for clitoral activities.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nLap Dance<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/SK_SexPositions_LapDance.jpg?w=213\")
\t<\/figure>\nFor this seated sex position, you\u2019ll use your favorite armless chair (or any available surface) and have the receiving partner straddle the penetrating partner\u2019s lap, either face-to-face or front to back. The receiving partner can situate themselves however it feels comfortable, but feet planted on the floor are typically best as the ground can be used for leverage while thrusting. From there, they can rotate, bounce, and grind to their heart\u2019s content\u2014much as someone might during a lap dance.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> Lap Dance allows for deep penetration and even deeper eye contact, making it ideal for those who enjoy cervical stimulation and intimacy. This position is a great alternative for standing sex positions for couples who are of different heights. Because the partner on top can do all the humping and bumping, Lap Dance is also accessible for wheelchair users and those with lower-body strength or mobility limitations.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nShower Sex Positions<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Shower-Sex-Positions_.jpg?w=300\")
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\nStanding Up Full-Frontal<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/standing-full-frontal.png?w=300\")
\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nSomething that almost always seems like a better idea in theory? Shower sex<\/a>. It\u2019s ideal for early morning quickies and keeping things clean, but depending on the shape of your shower and tub, and whether there\u2019s a possibility of roommates walking in on you (oops), this position can sometimes throw you for a loop. But if you lock your door and schedule some quiet time, it\u2019s definitely do-able.\u00a0<\/p>\nOne position is ideal if you have a bench or a wider rim of your tub \u2014 have the penatrating partner keep both legs on the ground (they do need to keep their balance game together here!) while the partner being penetrated takes them from the front, lifting one leg up to wrap around their partner or to rest on the side of the tub. Just add water.<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:\u00a0<\/strong>Done right, there\u2019s something so sleek and heady about getting intimate with all that water running down your body during shower sex. This simple position gives both partners the option to set the pace, and since you\u2019re already on your feet, it\u2019s easy to move to a drier area when the hot water runs out.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nSoap\u2019n\u2019Grope<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/soap-and-grope.png?w=300\")
\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nFlip things around in this shower sex variation to keep the fun going. For this option, the partner being penetrated should brace themselves on an available wall as the penetrating partner enters from behind.<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:\u00a0<\/strong>Shower sex is meant to be a hands-on activity, clearly \u2014 so the Soap\u2019n\u2019Grope standing position allows the penetrating partner to do a bit more exploring along with a sexy angle to enjoy. It\u2019s easily the dirtiest way to have good, clean fun.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nBondage Sex Positions<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Bondage-Sex-Positions_.jpg?w=300\")
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\nHands Behind Ankles<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/hands-behind-ankle.png?w=300\")
\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nEntering into the kinky portion of our list, Hands Behind Ankles is a position that requires a comfortable pair of cuffs<\/a>, a good deal of flexibility, and some pre-game discussio<\/a>n. Make sure the partner being cuffed is comfortable, sort out safe words (a red, yellow, green stoplight system is cool but stopping when you hear \u201cstop\u201d is always a good place to start, NGL) and plan out some cozy aftercare<\/a>.\u00a0<\/p>\nNow on to the position: Sort of a Yoga meets hogtie move (unless you get a set up of cuffs that accomodate ankles, I suppose), you\u2019ll want to have the partner being penetrated\/cuffed lie down with their belly to the floor and bend their legs up. Reaching back for their feet, attach the cuffs around the wrists so they sit behind their ankles. With a little careful maneuvering, have the penetrating partner slide in between the receiving partner\u2019s back and ankles. (Or, when in doubt, bust out a toy!)<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great: <\/strong>If bondage is your cup of tea, you know how sexy a position like this can be. The receiving partner is especially vulnerable, bringing in a sensual trust and relinquishing of control. On the physical end, stretching and opening the penetrated partner\u2019s hips brings bit of extra blood to the pelvis, allowing for a highly stimulating experience.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nThe Kinky Missionary<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/kinky-missionary.png?w=300\")
\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nLooking for an excuse to whip out your under-mattress restraint sets or headboard-friendly cuffs<\/a> or invest in them? Consider this position. The Kinky Missionary is your standard missionary sex but with some added bondage. Here, you\u2019ll restrain your partner to the bed and approach missionary as usual.\u00a0<\/p>\nWhy It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> This BDSM-beginner position should be one of the first positions you try out when breaking out the restraints. Why? The face-to-face configuration can provide a feeling of safety. Plus, the positioning allows you to use non-verbal facial cues \u2014 in addition to verbal ones \u2014 to suss out what your partner enjoys.\u00a0<\/p>\nMore experienced kinksters will be happy to know that there are plenty<\/em> of ways to embrace power play<\/a> in this configuration. Blindfolds, dirty talk, and sensation play can all be used to intensify the agreed-upon power dynamic. So, take some time to talk to one another about what would feel the most exciting and don\u2019t hesitate to troubleshoot and adjust as you go, especially if it\u2019s your first time adding this kind of play to your sex life!<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nStanding Room Only<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/standing-room-only.png?w=300\")
\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nStanding sex positions can be an incredibly hot way to change things up if you and your partner find yourself in the same old positions time and time again. Add a pair of cuffs, like in this position, to really take things up a notch. It feels intuitive for the partner who wants to be cuffed to also be partner recieving \u2014 but not a requirement necessarily! Just make sure the partner recieving can adjust their leg; slung around the waist, butt, or thigh is a good place to start, but the un-cuffed partner should help support to get the optimal angle.<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great: <\/strong>This beginner-friendly bondage move makes you feel like you just dropped into a erotic movie scene<\/a>. The change of angle plus the cuffs just pushes all the right buttons! Just remember to check in and make sure restraints aren\u2019t too tight and that you switch things up when and if your cuffed partner gets tired (it happens!). Also: A solid pair of over the door cuffs (these from Unbound are comfy and cute<\/a>!) will be your best friend here.\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nCar Sex Positions<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Car-Sex-Positions_.jpg?w=300\")
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\nBackseat Driver<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/oclacgkmujva1rjqdbc0.jpeg?w=213\")
\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Becci Burkhart\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nAs its name suggests, this sex position will turn your car<\/a> into a Love Mobile. Hop into the back of your car for Backseat Driver and then have the receiving partner assume a straddling position.\u00a0<\/p>\nWhy It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> Backseat Driver is a super customizable sex position. Depending on where you are, as well as what types of physical contact you\u2019re craving, while in position, you can snog the night away, have penetrative sex, or something else altogether.\u00a0<\/p>\nJust keep in mind that sexual activity in public is illegal in most states. To say nothing of the fact that it could land you on a sex offender registry in certain areas. With that, it\u2019s best to have car sex in a private driveway.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n
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\nBelt Bondage<\/h2>\n\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.sheknows.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/t1k6zay09sntezzxjjvx.jpeg?w=213\")
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Pin now, try them out later!\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n
Classic Sex Positions<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\t<\/figure>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nModified Coital-Alignment Technique<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nEssentially an upgraded version of missionary, the Coital Alignment Technique position<\/a> (aka CAT) is a face-to-face position that involves the penetrating partner moving up and down rather than in and out. For this elevated variation, the receiving partner lays on their back. Then, the penetrating partner enters from above.\u00a0<\/p>\nThe key word here? Above. The penetrating partner needs to shift their weight forward so that their penis or dildo presses all along the external vulva rather than going right for the glory holes.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> Once in position, the penetrator should avoid thrusting and instead focus on moving their hips in circles. This simultaneously massages the internal erogenous zones in the vagina (like the G-spot) as well the clitoral glans. Meanwhile, the receiving partner should experiment with tilting their hips at various angles, as well as wrapping their legs around their lover\u2019s back.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nDoggy Style<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nAs far as rear-entry sex positions go, doggy style is top dog. For this classic, the receiving partner gets on all fours while the penetrating partner stands or kneels behind them and goes to town. From here, the receiving partner can \u2018cat-cow\u2019 their pelvis to facilitate pressure against their most sensitive hot-spots, while the penetrating partner can use their hands to grip, grab, or grope to their heart\u2019s content.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> On the physical front, the doggy style allows for easy to the G-spot (shallow penetration) or A-spot (deeper penetration), depending on the exact angle. Plus, the receiving partner is perfectly positioned to stimulate their clit with their hand or vibe. Meanwhile, emotionally and mentally, the bestial position can be arousing because it often feels more intense and less restrained.\u00a0<\/p>\nNot to mention, there are a lot of modifications to give the giver and receiver something they\u2019ll enjoy, such as anal doggy, flat doggy, and wheelbarrow.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n
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\nPushing Tush<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nButt-lovers rejoice! The Pushing Tush, sometimes known as rear-entry missionary, is a sex position that makes the back door the star of the show. You\u2019ll assume the missionary position, but rather than the vagina being the point of entry, the anus will be.\u00a0<\/p>\n
To facilitate the angle of entry, the bottom partner should put a sex pillow under their hips. Alternatively, the bottom can plant their feet into the mattress and then actively tilt their hips up and press their spine into the ground, which will open the anal canal.\u00a0<\/p>\n
In case it needs to be said, lube is an absolute must here. The anal canal is never self-lubricating in the way the vagina often is. So, to reduce uncomfortable friction and facilitate that feel-good slide-and-glide, you\u2019ll want to lather the insertive body part or toy with lubricant and use a lube shooter to coat the inner canal.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> This is a solid choice if either partner has expressed interest in playing around with anal penetration in an intimate way. A suitable position for both anal with a penis and dildo (aka pegging), this face-to-face position allows the penetrating partner to read their partner\u2019s facial cues for additional insight on comfort.\u00a0<\/p>\nIf both partners want to enjoy anal penetration at the same time, consider having the top partner plop in a vibrating butt plug or prostate massager ahead of entry.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n
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\nRocking Horse<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nThe Rocking Horse will become your new fave for G-spot stimulation<\/a> and intimate eye-contact. In this position, the receiving partner sits between the penetrating partner\u2019s legs, with the receiving partner\u2019s legs just short of wrapped around them (but you can modify for that if you want to go full Koala!).<\/p>\nWhy It\u2019s Great: <\/strong>With Rocking Horse, both partners rock into each other, which gives you a lot of room to control the depth of penetration while also holding each other super close. It can be as gentle or as sexy (or a combo of both!) as you like.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nSeated Scissors<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nThink of seated scissors as a play on reverse cowgirl \u2014 and we mean\u00a0play,<\/em> because this position is a fun one. The penetrating partner lies on their back with one leg bent while the receiving partner gets on top, straddling their bent leg and arranging their legs however feels comfortable. There\u2019s plenty of support up top and lots of room for both partners to experiment.<\/p>\nWhy It\u2019s great: <\/strong>Seated scissors is truly fun for everyone. While the receiving partner gets to bounce, bump, and grind to their heart\u2019s content on top, the penetrating partner can relax and enjoy the great view.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nSpooning<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nParticularly on slow mornings, there are few things that hit like a morning tussle with your partner. The Spooning (yes, like the cuddling position) invites the penetrating partner to step into the big spoon role and enter their partner vaginally or anally from behind.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> Skin, skin, and more skin is the name of the game with spooning sex. This ultra-intimate position is a great way to seamlessly transition from loving cuddles to making love. Best of all, your hands remain free for touch and clitoral stimulation.\u00a0<\/p>\nOh, and when you\u2019re all done, there\u2019s not much else to do but snuggle up and fall back asleep for a while. (But remember to pee after sex. Nobody wants a UTI<\/a> over here.)<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nScissoring<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\t<\/figure>\nScissoring may be a classic lesbian position, but this grinding sex position can be enjoyed by two people of any gender, sex, or sexuality. Start by laying your heads opposite one another. From here, you have options. You can straddle one another\u2019s legs, grinding up against each other\u2019s calves or knees to apply feel-good pressure to your pubic mound and genitals. Or, you can shimmy upward until you are genital-to-genital,\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> This sex position, which can be enjoyed by a wide range of body types, genders, and sexual configurations, is an excellent reminder that penetration isn\u2019t the be-all and end-all of sex. By making external stimulation the main focus, scissoring can help individuals achieve vulvar or penile stimulation in a new way.\u00a0<\/p>\nAs a bonus, because there is no genital-to-genital contact in the first variation of this sex position, there is a much lower risk of STI transmission.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n
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\nBend Over, Baby<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Becci Burkhart\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nThis shallow-penetration position<\/a> makes a smaller penis feel just right. Bent over at a 90-degree angle, the receiving partner can experiment with tilting their pelvis to find the perfect hot spot.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nScissors<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Becci Burkhart\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nIf your partner has a thicker penis, the Scissors position is the way to go. You\u2019ll lie on your sides, facing each other, with your heads on opposite sides of the bed. The receving partner straddles one of their partner\u2019 and slips one leg up to open up and allow for penetration. The friction and the hot position will keep you both feeling fireworks from start to finish.<\/p>\n
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\nNon-Penetrative Sex Positions<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\t<\/figure>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nUncloak the Clitoris<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nClitoral stimulation \u2014 not penetration \u2014 is the name of the game with the Uncloak the Clitoris sex position. This handsy sex position involves one partner using their fingers to stimulate their lover\u2019s glans clitoris, which is the tip of the iceberg of the clitoral structure which actually extends far back into the body.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Bringing this clit-focused sex position to life is going to require a decent bit of communication. The reason? Not all vulva owners like their genitals touched the same. Whether you give this sensitive part of the body love by tapping it, pressing it, circling it, or another form of touch altogether, should depend on the receiver\u2019s preferences.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Similarly, while some people enjoy having their clit touched through direct stimulation, other people need to buffer the intensity by wearing underwear or layering their labia over the love bud. With that, it\u2019s important to ask your partner what they like before bee-lining to the glans.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> The vast majority of people with vulvas can\u2019t orgasm from penetration alone. In fact, research<\/a> has found that 70 percent of women find sex more pleasurable and\/or more orgasmic when clitoral stimulation is part of sexual play. Given that, this hand-sex position can be a great way to help get your partner off.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\nAdditionally, because this position requires so much communication, it can encourage you to talk about your needs in and out of the bedroom, which can benefit your relationship overall.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n
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\nBaring the Scepter<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nCreative copulators, this one\u2019s for you. The Baring the Scepter involves DIY-ing a vibrating penis ring. How? With your fingers.\u00a0<\/p>\n
For this sex position, either partner will form a ring with their thumb and forefinger around the base of the penis and slightly pull down so the skin of the shaft is taut. If they can keep their hand there during intercourse, it\u2019s a sure way to make the penis in question harder and more sensitive.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> Store-bought penis rings are widely lauded for their ability to slow blood flow out of the penis, resulting in a stiffy that is harder and longer lasting. This toy-free version, which can help achieve a similar outcome, is accessible to those who don\u2019t have a penis ring on hand.\u00a0<\/p>\nIt\u2019s worth noting that while this particular position is geared towards improving erectile function, a rock-hard erection isn\u2019t necessary for pleasurable oral or hand sex.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n
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\nSelf-Loving (On Your Knees)<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nWhether you\u2019re flying solo or are showing your partner some of what you like, a solid go-to masturbation position (like grinding on a firm pillow or a toy) can be an excellent way to heighten pleasure. Set a rhythm that works and go to town.<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great: <\/strong>Straddling said pillow (or your lover\u2019s thigh, go off) makes this position is great for people with vulvas to get the friction they really want. It\u2019s a super simple yet effective position, especially if you don\u2019t have a cache of toys or tools at your disposal.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nQueening in Bondage<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nYou may know this position by its other less SFW name \u2014 \u201cface sitting\u201d \u2014 but Queening in Bondage is when a partner recieves oral stimulation while resting on or above their partner\u2019s mouth. Your weight can mostly held by your knees and thighs, so don\u2019t get too wound up about \u201ccrushing\u201d your partner \u2014 just make sure they feel comfortable communicating how much pressure is good from you on top!<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great: <\/strong>The power switch of this position is so enticing, and receiving partners will love getting to set the pace and pressure. Adding restraint play to position is yet another way to up the sensation and intensity of the scene or sexual encounter, allowing the receiving partner to really own the power of the pose (as pictured here) or offering an equally sexy subversion if you switch places.\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nElevated Sex Positions<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\t<\/figure>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nCountertop<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nAs its apt name suggests, this sex position is to facilitate your sweeping-off-the-countertop (or desk) fantasies. The Countertop sex position can utilize just about any flat surface that is the right height for the penetrating partner. Find a sturdy surface and have the receiving partner lay or sit down. Then, get to work.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great<\/strong>: To start, the Countertop sex position allows you to act out some of your hot-hot-hot sexual fantasies in the kitchen, office, or board room. It also frees up both partners\u2019 hands for nipple and clitoral stimulation, hair pulling, or any other types of love touches.\u00a0<\/p>\nFor the record: This position also works well for cunnilingus. The only difference is that during the oral sex variation, the giving partner will kneel before their partner, not stand.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n
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\nHappy Scissors<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nBecause three is a lucky number, here\u2019s one additional sex position that\u2019s excellent for any flat surface. As with the previous two positions, the Happy Scissors set-up involves the receiving partner lying on a hip-height surface while the penetrating partner stands before them. The difference is that the laying partner should splay their legs and point their toes to the ceiling.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> The open-legged position that marks Happy Scissors is seriously erotic. When on their back, the bottom partner essentially welcomes their partner to gaze into and fill their wide, open hole(s). The energy of this set-up can be exceptionally arousing for those interested in playing with power dynamics in bed, as the receiving position is a submission one.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\nAlso: This position gives access to all sorts of erogenous zones down the legs and feet. Who knows, maybe Happy Scissors is the excuse you\u2019ve been waiting for to try toe-sucking in bed.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n
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\nThe Butterfly<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nIf your sexual motto is that deeper is better, the butterfly sex position is for you. This half-standing, half-laying sex position involves the receiving partner laying back on a slightly elevated surface (think: bed, table, countertop). Then, positioning their heels over the shoulder of the penetrating partner, who should assume an athletic stance before them before sliding in.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> The Butterfly offers the standing partner a serious eye-full, making it ideal for visual learners. Meanwhile, the angle of the lying partner\u2019s hips allows them to achieve cervical stimulation. Not to mention, their hands are free for clitoral activities.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nLap Dance<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\t<\/figure>\nFor this seated sex position, you\u2019ll use your favorite armless chair (or any available surface) and have the receiving partner straddle the penetrating partner\u2019s lap, either face-to-face or front to back. The receiving partner can situate themselves however it feels comfortable, but feet planted on the floor are typically best as the ground can be used for leverage while thrusting. From there, they can rotate, bounce, and grind to their heart\u2019s content\u2014much as someone might during a lap dance.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> Lap Dance allows for deep penetration and even deeper eye contact, making it ideal for those who enjoy cervical stimulation and intimacy. This position is a great alternative for standing sex positions for couples who are of different heights. Because the partner on top can do all the humping and bumping, Lap Dance is also accessible for wheelchair users and those with lower-body strength or mobility limitations.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nShower Sex Positions<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\t<\/figure>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nStanding Up Full-Frontal<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nSomething that almost always seems like a better idea in theory? Shower sex<\/a>. It\u2019s ideal for early morning quickies and keeping things clean, but depending on the shape of your shower and tub, and whether there\u2019s a possibility of roommates walking in on you (oops), this position can sometimes throw you for a loop. But if you lock your door and schedule some quiet time, it\u2019s definitely do-able.\u00a0<\/p>\nOne position is ideal if you have a bench or a wider rim of your tub \u2014 have the penatrating partner keep both legs on the ground (they do need to keep their balance game together here!) while the partner being penetrated takes them from the front, lifting one leg up to wrap around their partner or to rest on the side of the tub. Just add water.<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:\u00a0<\/strong>Done right, there\u2019s something so sleek and heady about getting intimate with all that water running down your body during shower sex. This simple position gives both partners the option to set the pace, and since you\u2019re already on your feet, it\u2019s easy to move to a drier area when the hot water runs out.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nSoap\u2019n\u2019Grope<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nFlip things around in this shower sex variation to keep the fun going. For this option, the partner being penetrated should brace themselves on an available wall as the penetrating partner enters from behind.<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:\u00a0<\/strong>Shower sex is meant to be a hands-on activity, clearly \u2014 so the Soap\u2019n\u2019Grope standing position allows the penetrating partner to do a bit more exploring along with a sexy angle to enjoy. It\u2019s easily the dirtiest way to have good, clean fun.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
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\nHands Behind Ankles<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nEntering into the kinky portion of our list, Hands Behind Ankles is a position that requires a comfortable pair of cuffs<\/a>, a good deal of flexibility, and some pre-game discussio<\/a>n. Make sure the partner being cuffed is comfortable, sort out safe words (a red, yellow, green stoplight system is cool but stopping when you hear \u201cstop\u201d is always a good place to start, NGL) and plan out some cozy aftercare<\/a>.\u00a0<\/p>\nNow on to the position: Sort of a Yoga meets hogtie move (unless you get a set up of cuffs that accomodate ankles, I suppose), you\u2019ll want to have the partner being penetrated\/cuffed lie down with their belly to the floor and bend their legs up. Reaching back for their feet, attach the cuffs around the wrists so they sit behind their ankles. With a little careful maneuvering, have the penetrating partner slide in between the receiving partner\u2019s back and ankles. (Or, when in doubt, bust out a toy!)<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great: <\/strong>If bondage is your cup of tea, you know how sexy a position like this can be. The receiving partner is especially vulnerable, bringing in a sensual trust and relinquishing of control. On the physical end, stretching and opening the penetrated partner\u2019s hips brings bit of extra blood to the pelvis, allowing for a highly stimulating experience.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nThe Kinky Missionary<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nLooking for an excuse to whip out your under-mattress restraint sets or headboard-friendly cuffs<\/a> or invest in them? Consider this position. The Kinky Missionary is your standard missionary sex but with some added bondage. Here, you\u2019ll restrain your partner to the bed and approach missionary as usual.\u00a0<\/p>\nWhy It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> This BDSM-beginner position should be one of the first positions you try out when breaking out the restraints. Why? The face-to-face configuration can provide a feeling of safety. Plus, the positioning allows you to use non-verbal facial cues \u2014 in addition to verbal ones \u2014 to suss out what your partner enjoys.\u00a0<\/p>\nMore experienced kinksters will be happy to know that there are plenty<\/em> of ways to embrace power play<\/a> in this configuration. Blindfolds, dirty talk, and sensation play can all be used to intensify the agreed-upon power dynamic. So, take some time to talk to one another about what would feel the most exciting and don\u2019t hesitate to troubleshoot and adjust as you go, especially if it\u2019s your first time adding this kind of play to your sex life!<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nStanding Room Only<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nStanding sex positions can be an incredibly hot way to change things up if you and your partner find yourself in the same old positions time and time again. Add a pair of cuffs, like in this position, to really take things up a notch. It feels intuitive for the partner who wants to be cuffed to also be partner recieving \u2014 but not a requirement necessarily! Just make sure the partner recieving can adjust their leg; slung around the waist, butt, or thigh is a good place to start, but the un-cuffed partner should help support to get the optimal angle.<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great: <\/strong>This beginner-friendly bondage move makes you feel like you just dropped into a erotic movie scene<\/a>. The change of angle plus the cuffs just pushes all the right buttons! Just remember to check in and make sure restraints aren\u2019t too tight and that you switch things up when and if your cuffed partner gets tired (it happens!). Also: A solid pair of over the door cuffs (these from Unbound are comfy and cute<\/a>!) will be your best friend here.\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nCar Sex Positions<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\t<\/figure>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nBackseat Driver<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Becci Burkhart\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nAs its name suggests, this sex position will turn your car<\/a> into a Love Mobile. Hop into the back of your car for Backseat Driver and then have the receiving partner assume a straddling position.\u00a0<\/p>\nWhy It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> Backseat Driver is a super customizable sex position. Depending on where you are, as well as what types of physical contact you\u2019re craving, while in position, you can snog the night away, have penetrative sex, or something else altogether.\u00a0<\/p>\nJust keep in mind that sexual activity in public is illegal in most states. To say nothing of the fact that it could land you on a sex offender registry in certain areas. With that, it\u2019s best to have car sex in a private driveway.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n
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\nBelt Bondage<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Becci Burkhart\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n
\t<\/figure>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\nModified Coital-Alignment Technique<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nEssentially an upgraded version of missionary, the Coital Alignment Technique position<\/a> (aka CAT) is a face-to-face position that involves the penetrating partner moving up and down rather than in and out. For this elevated variation, the receiving partner lays on their back. Then, the penetrating partner enters from above.\u00a0<\/p>\nThe key word here? Above. The penetrating partner needs to shift their weight forward so that their penis or dildo presses all along the external vulva rather than going right for the glory holes.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> Once in position, the penetrator should avoid thrusting and instead focus on moving their hips in circles. This simultaneously massages the internal erogenous zones in the vagina (like the G-spot) as well the clitoral glans. Meanwhile, the receiving partner should experiment with tilting their hips at various angles, as well as wrapping their legs around their lover\u2019s back.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nDoggy Style<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nAs far as rear-entry sex positions go, doggy style is top dog. For this classic, the receiving partner gets on all fours while the penetrating partner stands or kneels behind them and goes to town. From here, the receiving partner can \u2018cat-cow\u2019 their pelvis to facilitate pressure against their most sensitive hot-spots, while the penetrating partner can use their hands to grip, grab, or grope to their heart\u2019s content.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> On the physical front, the doggy style allows for easy to the G-spot (shallow penetration) or A-spot (deeper penetration), depending on the exact angle. Plus, the receiving partner is perfectly positioned to stimulate their clit with their hand or vibe. Meanwhile, emotionally and mentally, the bestial position can be arousing because it often feels more intense and less restrained.\u00a0<\/p>\nNot to mention, there are a lot of modifications to give the giver and receiver something they\u2019ll enjoy, such as anal doggy, flat doggy, and wheelbarrow.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n
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\nPushing Tush<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nButt-lovers rejoice! The Pushing Tush, sometimes known as rear-entry missionary, is a sex position that makes the back door the star of the show. You\u2019ll assume the missionary position, but rather than the vagina being the point of entry, the anus will be.\u00a0<\/p>\n
To facilitate the angle of entry, the bottom partner should put a sex pillow under their hips. Alternatively, the bottom can plant their feet into the mattress and then actively tilt their hips up and press their spine into the ground, which will open the anal canal.\u00a0<\/p>\n
In case it needs to be said, lube is an absolute must here. The anal canal is never self-lubricating in the way the vagina often is. So, to reduce uncomfortable friction and facilitate that feel-good slide-and-glide, you\u2019ll want to lather the insertive body part or toy with lubricant and use a lube shooter to coat the inner canal.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> This is a solid choice if either partner has expressed interest in playing around with anal penetration in an intimate way. A suitable position for both anal with a penis and dildo (aka pegging), this face-to-face position allows the penetrating partner to read their partner\u2019s facial cues for additional insight on comfort.\u00a0<\/p>\nIf both partners want to enjoy anal penetration at the same time, consider having the top partner plop in a vibrating butt plug or prostate massager ahead of entry.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n
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\nRocking Horse<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nThe Rocking Horse will become your new fave for G-spot stimulation<\/a> and intimate eye-contact. In this position, the receiving partner sits between the penetrating partner\u2019s legs, with the receiving partner\u2019s legs just short of wrapped around them (but you can modify for that if you want to go full Koala!).<\/p>\nWhy It\u2019s Great: <\/strong>With Rocking Horse, both partners rock into each other, which gives you a lot of room to control the depth of penetration while also holding each other super close. It can be as gentle or as sexy (or a combo of both!) as you like.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nSeated Scissors<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nThink of seated scissors as a play on reverse cowgirl \u2014 and we mean\u00a0play,<\/em> because this position is a fun one. The penetrating partner lies on their back with one leg bent while the receiving partner gets on top, straddling their bent leg and arranging their legs however feels comfortable. There\u2019s plenty of support up top and lots of room for both partners to experiment.<\/p>\nWhy It\u2019s great: <\/strong>Seated scissors is truly fun for everyone. While the receiving partner gets to bounce, bump, and grind to their heart\u2019s content on top, the penetrating partner can relax and enjoy the great view.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nSpooning<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nParticularly on slow mornings, there are few things that hit like a morning tussle with your partner. The Spooning (yes, like the cuddling position) invites the penetrating partner to step into the big spoon role and enter their partner vaginally or anally from behind.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> Skin, skin, and more skin is the name of the game with spooning sex. This ultra-intimate position is a great way to seamlessly transition from loving cuddles to making love. Best of all, your hands remain free for touch and clitoral stimulation.\u00a0<\/p>\nOh, and when you\u2019re all done, there\u2019s not much else to do but snuggle up and fall back asleep for a while. (But remember to pee after sex. Nobody wants a UTI<\/a> over here.)<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nScissoring<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\t<\/figure>\nScissoring may be a classic lesbian position, but this grinding sex position can be enjoyed by two people of any gender, sex, or sexuality. Start by laying your heads opposite one another. From here, you have options. You can straddle one another\u2019s legs, grinding up against each other\u2019s calves or knees to apply feel-good pressure to your pubic mound and genitals. Or, you can shimmy upward until you are genital-to-genital,\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> This sex position, which can be enjoyed by a wide range of body types, genders, and sexual configurations, is an excellent reminder that penetration isn\u2019t the be-all and end-all of sex. By making external stimulation the main focus, scissoring can help individuals achieve vulvar or penile stimulation in a new way.\u00a0<\/p>\nAs a bonus, because there is no genital-to-genital contact in the first variation of this sex position, there is a much lower risk of STI transmission.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n
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\nBend Over, Baby<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Becci Burkhart\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nThis shallow-penetration position<\/a> makes a smaller penis feel just right. Bent over at a 90-degree angle, the receiving partner can experiment with tilting their pelvis to find the perfect hot spot.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nScissors<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Becci Burkhart\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nIf your partner has a thicker penis, the Scissors position is the way to go. You\u2019ll lie on your sides, facing each other, with your heads on opposite sides of the bed. The receving partner straddles one of their partner\u2019 and slips one leg up to open up and allow for penetration. The friction and the hot position will keep you both feeling fireworks from start to finish.<\/p>\n
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\nNon-Penetrative Sex Positions<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\t<\/figure>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nUncloak the Clitoris<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nClitoral stimulation \u2014 not penetration \u2014 is the name of the game with the Uncloak the Clitoris sex position. This handsy sex position involves one partner using their fingers to stimulate their lover\u2019s glans clitoris, which is the tip of the iceberg of the clitoral structure which actually extends far back into the body.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Bringing this clit-focused sex position to life is going to require a decent bit of communication. The reason? Not all vulva owners like their genitals touched the same. Whether you give this sensitive part of the body love by tapping it, pressing it, circling it, or another form of touch altogether, should depend on the receiver\u2019s preferences.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Similarly, while some people enjoy having their clit touched through direct stimulation, other people need to buffer the intensity by wearing underwear or layering their labia over the love bud. With that, it\u2019s important to ask your partner what they like before bee-lining to the glans.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> The vast majority of people with vulvas can\u2019t orgasm from penetration alone. In fact, research<\/a> has found that 70 percent of women find sex more pleasurable and\/or more orgasmic when clitoral stimulation is part of sexual play. Given that, this hand-sex position can be a great way to help get your partner off.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\nAdditionally, because this position requires so much communication, it can encourage you to talk about your needs in and out of the bedroom, which can benefit your relationship overall.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n
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\nBaring the Scepter<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nCreative copulators, this one\u2019s for you. The Baring the Scepter involves DIY-ing a vibrating penis ring. How? With your fingers.\u00a0<\/p>\n
For this sex position, either partner will form a ring with their thumb and forefinger around the base of the penis and slightly pull down so the skin of the shaft is taut. If they can keep their hand there during intercourse, it\u2019s a sure way to make the penis in question harder and more sensitive.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> Store-bought penis rings are widely lauded for their ability to slow blood flow out of the penis, resulting in a stiffy that is harder and longer lasting. This toy-free version, which can help achieve a similar outcome, is accessible to those who don\u2019t have a penis ring on hand.\u00a0<\/p>\nIt\u2019s worth noting that while this particular position is geared towards improving erectile function, a rock-hard erection isn\u2019t necessary for pleasurable oral or hand sex.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n
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\nSelf-Loving (On Your Knees)<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nWhether you\u2019re flying solo or are showing your partner some of what you like, a solid go-to masturbation position (like grinding on a firm pillow or a toy) can be an excellent way to heighten pleasure. Set a rhythm that works and go to town.<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great: <\/strong>Straddling said pillow (or your lover\u2019s thigh, go off) makes this position is great for people with vulvas to get the friction they really want. It\u2019s a super simple yet effective position, especially if you don\u2019t have a cache of toys or tools at your disposal.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nQueening in Bondage<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nYou may know this position by its other less SFW name \u2014 \u201cface sitting\u201d \u2014 but Queening in Bondage is when a partner recieves oral stimulation while resting on or above their partner\u2019s mouth. Your weight can mostly held by your knees and thighs, so don\u2019t get too wound up about \u201ccrushing\u201d your partner \u2014 just make sure they feel comfortable communicating how much pressure is good from you on top!<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great: <\/strong>The power switch of this position is so enticing, and receiving partners will love getting to set the pace and pressure. Adding restraint play to position is yet another way to up the sensation and intensity of the scene or sexual encounter, allowing the receiving partner to really own the power of the pose (as pictured here) or offering an equally sexy subversion if you switch places.\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nElevated Sex Positions<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\t<\/figure>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nCountertop<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nAs its apt name suggests, this sex position is to facilitate your sweeping-off-the-countertop (or desk) fantasies. The Countertop sex position can utilize just about any flat surface that is the right height for the penetrating partner. Find a sturdy surface and have the receiving partner lay or sit down. Then, get to work.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great<\/strong>: To start, the Countertop sex position allows you to act out some of your hot-hot-hot sexual fantasies in the kitchen, office, or board room. It also frees up both partners\u2019 hands for nipple and clitoral stimulation, hair pulling, or any other types of love touches.\u00a0<\/p>\nFor the record: This position also works well for cunnilingus. The only difference is that during the oral sex variation, the giving partner will kneel before their partner, not stand.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n
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\nHappy Scissors<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nBecause three is a lucky number, here\u2019s one additional sex position that\u2019s excellent for any flat surface. As with the previous two positions, the Happy Scissors set-up involves the receiving partner lying on a hip-height surface while the penetrating partner stands before them. The difference is that the laying partner should splay their legs and point their toes to the ceiling.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> The open-legged position that marks Happy Scissors is seriously erotic. When on their back, the bottom partner essentially welcomes their partner to gaze into and fill their wide, open hole(s). The energy of this set-up can be exceptionally arousing for those interested in playing with power dynamics in bed, as the receiving position is a submission one.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\nAlso: This position gives access to all sorts of erogenous zones down the legs and feet. Who knows, maybe Happy Scissors is the excuse you\u2019ve been waiting for to try toe-sucking in bed.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n
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\nThe Butterfly<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nIf your sexual motto is that deeper is better, the butterfly sex position is for you. This half-standing, half-laying sex position involves the receiving partner laying back on a slightly elevated surface (think: bed, table, countertop). Then, positioning their heels over the shoulder of the penetrating partner, who should assume an athletic stance before them before sliding in.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> The Butterfly offers the standing partner a serious eye-full, making it ideal for visual learners. Meanwhile, the angle of the lying partner\u2019s hips allows them to achieve cervical stimulation. Not to mention, their hands are free for clitoral activities.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nLap Dance<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\t<\/figure>\nFor this seated sex position, you\u2019ll use your favorite armless chair (or any available surface) and have the receiving partner straddle the penetrating partner\u2019s lap, either face-to-face or front to back. The receiving partner can situate themselves however it feels comfortable, but feet planted on the floor are typically best as the ground can be used for leverage while thrusting. From there, they can rotate, bounce, and grind to their heart\u2019s content\u2014much as someone might during a lap dance.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> Lap Dance allows for deep penetration and even deeper eye contact, making it ideal for those who enjoy cervical stimulation and intimacy. This position is a great alternative for standing sex positions for couples who are of different heights. Because the partner on top can do all the humping and bumping, Lap Dance is also accessible for wheelchair users and those with lower-body strength or mobility limitations.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nShower Sex Positions<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\t<\/figure>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nStanding Up Full-Frontal<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nSomething that almost always seems like a better idea in theory? Shower sex<\/a>. It\u2019s ideal for early morning quickies and keeping things clean, but depending on the shape of your shower and tub, and whether there\u2019s a possibility of roommates walking in on you (oops), this position can sometimes throw you for a loop. But if you lock your door and schedule some quiet time, it\u2019s definitely do-able.\u00a0<\/p>\nOne position is ideal if you have a bench or a wider rim of your tub \u2014 have the penatrating partner keep both legs on the ground (they do need to keep their balance game together here!) while the partner being penetrated takes them from the front, lifting one leg up to wrap around their partner or to rest on the side of the tub. Just add water.<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:\u00a0<\/strong>Done right, there\u2019s something so sleek and heady about getting intimate with all that water running down your body during shower sex. This simple position gives both partners the option to set the pace, and since you\u2019re already on your feet, it\u2019s easy to move to a drier area when the hot water runs out.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nSoap\u2019n\u2019Grope<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nFlip things around in this shower sex variation to keep the fun going. For this option, the partner being penetrated should brace themselves on an available wall as the penetrating partner enters from behind.<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great:\u00a0<\/strong>Shower sex is meant to be a hands-on activity, clearly \u2014 so the Soap\u2019n\u2019Grope standing position allows the penetrating partner to do a bit more exploring along with a sexy angle to enjoy. It\u2019s easily the dirtiest way to have good, clean fun.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
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\nHands Behind Ankles<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nEntering into the kinky portion of our list, Hands Behind Ankles is a position that requires a comfortable pair of cuffs<\/a>, a good deal of flexibility, and some pre-game discussio<\/a>n. Make sure the partner being cuffed is comfortable, sort out safe words (a red, yellow, green stoplight system is cool but stopping when you hear \u201cstop\u201d is always a good place to start, NGL) and plan out some cozy aftercare<\/a>.\u00a0<\/p>\nNow on to the position: Sort of a Yoga meets hogtie move (unless you get a set up of cuffs that accomodate ankles, I suppose), you\u2019ll want to have the partner being penetrated\/cuffed lie down with their belly to the floor and bend their legs up. Reaching back for their feet, attach the cuffs around the wrists so they sit behind their ankles. With a little careful maneuvering, have the penetrating partner slide in between the receiving partner\u2019s back and ankles. (Or, when in doubt, bust out a toy!)<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great: <\/strong>If bondage is your cup of tea, you know how sexy a position like this can be. The receiving partner is especially vulnerable, bringing in a sensual trust and relinquishing of control. On the physical end, stretching and opening the penetrated partner\u2019s hips brings bit of extra blood to the pelvis, allowing for a highly stimulating experience.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nThe Kinky Missionary<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nLooking for an excuse to whip out your under-mattress restraint sets or headboard-friendly cuffs<\/a> or invest in them? Consider this position. The Kinky Missionary is your standard missionary sex but with some added bondage. Here, you\u2019ll restrain your partner to the bed and approach missionary as usual.\u00a0<\/p>\nWhy It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> This BDSM-beginner position should be one of the first positions you try out when breaking out the restraints. Why? The face-to-face configuration can provide a feeling of safety. Plus, the positioning allows you to use non-verbal facial cues \u2014 in addition to verbal ones \u2014 to suss out what your partner enjoys.\u00a0<\/p>\nMore experienced kinksters will be happy to know that there are plenty<\/em> of ways to embrace power play<\/a> in this configuration. Blindfolds, dirty talk, and sensation play can all be used to intensify the agreed-upon power dynamic. So, take some time to talk to one another about what would feel the most exciting and don\u2019t hesitate to troubleshoot and adjust as you go, especially if it\u2019s your first time adding this kind of play to your sex life!<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nStanding Room Only<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Ashley Britton\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nStanding sex positions can be an incredibly hot way to change things up if you and your partner find yourself in the same old positions time and time again. Add a pair of cuffs, like in this position, to really take things up a notch. It feels intuitive for the partner who wants to be cuffed to also be partner recieving \u2014 but not a requirement necessarily! Just make sure the partner recieving can adjust their leg; slung around the waist, butt, or thigh is a good place to start, but the un-cuffed partner should help support to get the optimal angle.<\/p>\n
Why It\u2019s Great: <\/strong>This beginner-friendly bondage move makes you feel like you just dropped into a erotic movie scene<\/a>. The change of angle plus the cuffs just pushes all the right buttons! Just remember to check in and make sure restraints aren\u2019t too tight and that you switch things up when and if your cuffed partner gets tired (it happens!). Also: A solid pair of over the door cuffs (these from Unbound are comfy and cute<\/a>!) will be your best friend here.\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nCar Sex Positions<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\t<\/figure>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n- \n
\nBackseat Driver<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Becci Burkhart\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\nAs its name suggests, this sex position will turn your car<\/a> into a Love Mobile. Hop into the back of your car for Backseat Driver and then have the receiving partner assume a straddling position.\u00a0<\/p>\nWhy It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> Backseat Driver is a super customizable sex position. Depending on where you are, as well as what types of physical contact you\u2019re craving, while in position, you can snog the night away, have penetrative sex, or something else altogether.\u00a0<\/p>\nJust keep in mind that sexual activity in public is illegal in most states. To say nothing of the fact that it could land you on a sex offender registry in certain areas. With that, it\u2019s best to have car sex in a private driveway.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n
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\nBelt Bondage<\/h2>\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\tImage Credit: Becci Burkhart\/SheKnows\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n
Essentially an upgraded version of missionary, the Coital Alignment Technique position<\/a> (aka CAT) is a face-to-face position that involves the penetrating partner moving up and down rather than in and out. For this elevated variation, the receiving partner lays on their back. Then, the penetrating partner enters from above.\u00a0<\/p>\n The key word here? Above. The penetrating partner needs to shift their weight forward so that their penis or dildo presses all along the external vulva rather than going right for the glory holes.\u00a0<\/p>\n Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> Once in position, the penetrator should avoid thrusting and instead focus on moving their hips in circles. This simultaneously massages the internal erogenous zones in the vagina (like the G-spot) as well the clitoral glans. Meanwhile, the receiving partner should experiment with tilting their hips at various angles, as well as wrapping their legs around their lover\u2019s back.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n As far as rear-entry sex positions go, doggy style is top dog. For this classic, the receiving partner gets on all fours while the penetrating partner stands or kneels behind them and goes to town. From here, the receiving partner can \u2018cat-cow\u2019 their pelvis to facilitate pressure against their most sensitive hot-spots, while the penetrating partner can use their hands to grip, grab, or grope to their heart\u2019s content.\u00a0<\/p>\n Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> On the physical front, the doggy style allows for easy to the G-spot (shallow penetration) or A-spot (deeper penetration), depending on the exact angle. Plus, the receiving partner is perfectly positioned to stimulate their clit with their hand or vibe. Meanwhile, emotionally and mentally, the bestial position can be arousing because it often feels more intense and less restrained.\u00a0<\/p>\n Not to mention, there are a lot of modifications to give the giver and receiver something they\u2019ll enjoy, such as anal doggy, flat doggy, and wheelbarrow.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n Butt-lovers rejoice! The Pushing Tush, sometimes known as rear-entry missionary, is a sex position that makes the back door the star of the show. You\u2019ll assume the missionary position, but rather than the vagina being the point of entry, the anus will be.\u00a0<\/p>\n To facilitate the angle of entry, the bottom partner should put a sex pillow under their hips. Alternatively, the bottom can plant their feet into the mattress and then actively tilt their hips up and press their spine into the ground, which will open the anal canal.\u00a0<\/p>\n In case it needs to be said, lube is an absolute must here. The anal canal is never self-lubricating in the way the vagina often is. So, to reduce uncomfortable friction and facilitate that feel-good slide-and-glide, you\u2019ll want to lather the insertive body part or toy with lubricant and use a lube shooter to coat the inner canal.\u00a0<\/p>\n Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> This is a solid choice if either partner has expressed interest in playing around with anal penetration in an intimate way. A suitable position for both anal with a penis and dildo (aka pegging), this face-to-face position allows the penetrating partner to read their partner\u2019s facial cues for additional insight on comfort.\u00a0<\/p>\n If both partners want to enjoy anal penetration at the same time, consider having the top partner plop in a vibrating butt plug or prostate massager ahead of entry.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n The Rocking Horse will become your new fave for G-spot stimulation<\/a> and intimate eye-contact. In this position, the receiving partner sits between the penetrating partner\u2019s legs, with the receiving partner\u2019s legs just short of wrapped around them (but you can modify for that if you want to go full Koala!).<\/p>\n Why It\u2019s Great: <\/strong>With Rocking Horse, both partners rock into each other, which gives you a lot of room to control the depth of penetration while also holding each other super close. It can be as gentle or as sexy (or a combo of both!) as you like.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n Think of seated scissors as a play on reverse cowgirl \u2014 and we mean\u00a0play,<\/em> because this position is a fun one. The penetrating partner lies on their back with one leg bent while the receiving partner gets on top, straddling their bent leg and arranging their legs however feels comfortable. There\u2019s plenty of support up top and lots of room for both partners to experiment.<\/p>\n Why It\u2019s great: <\/strong>Seated scissors is truly fun for everyone. While the receiving partner gets to bounce, bump, and grind to their heart\u2019s content on top, the penetrating partner can relax and enjoy the great view.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n Particularly on slow mornings, there are few things that hit like a morning tussle with your partner. The Spooning (yes, like the cuddling position) invites the penetrating partner to step into the big spoon role and enter their partner vaginally or anally from behind.\u00a0<\/p>\n Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> Skin, skin, and more skin is the name of the game with spooning sex. This ultra-intimate position is a great way to seamlessly transition from loving cuddles to making love. Best of all, your hands remain free for touch and clitoral stimulation.\u00a0<\/p>\n Oh, and when you\u2019re all done, there\u2019s not much else to do but snuggle up and fall back asleep for a while. (But remember to pee after sex. Nobody wants a UTI<\/a> over here.)<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n Scissoring may be a classic lesbian position, but this grinding sex position can be enjoyed by two people of any gender, sex, or sexuality. Start by laying your heads opposite one another. From here, you have options. You can straddle one another\u2019s legs, grinding up against each other\u2019s calves or knees to apply feel-good pressure to your pubic mound and genitals. Or, you can shimmy upward until you are genital-to-genital,\u00a0<\/p>\n Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> This sex position, which can be enjoyed by a wide range of body types, genders, and sexual configurations, is an excellent reminder that penetration isn\u2019t the be-all and end-all of sex. By making external stimulation the main focus, scissoring can help individuals achieve vulvar or penile stimulation in a new way.\u00a0<\/p>\n As a bonus, because there is no genital-to-genital contact in the first variation of this sex position, there is a much lower risk of STI transmission.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n This shallow-penetration position<\/a> makes a smaller penis feel just right. Bent over at a 90-degree angle, the receiving partner can experiment with tilting their pelvis to find the perfect hot spot.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n If your partner has a thicker penis, the Scissors position is the way to go. You\u2019ll lie on your sides, facing each other, with your heads on opposite sides of the bed. The receving partner straddles one of their partner\u2019 and slips one leg up to open up and allow for penetration. The friction and the hot position will keep you both feeling fireworks from start to finish.<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n Clitoral stimulation \u2014 not penetration \u2014 is the name of the game with the Uncloak the Clitoris sex position. This handsy sex position involves one partner using their fingers to stimulate their lover\u2019s glans clitoris, which is the tip of the iceberg of the clitoral structure which actually extends far back into the body.\u00a0<\/p>\n Bringing this clit-focused sex position to life is going to require a decent bit of communication. The reason? Not all vulva owners like their genitals touched the same. Whether you give this sensitive part of the body love by tapping it, pressing it, circling it, or another form of touch altogether, should depend on the receiver\u2019s preferences.\u00a0<\/p>\n Similarly, while some people enjoy having their clit touched through direct stimulation, other people need to buffer the intensity by wearing underwear or layering their labia over the love bud. With that, it\u2019s important to ask your partner what they like before bee-lining to the glans.\u00a0<\/p>\n Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> The vast majority of people with vulvas can\u2019t orgasm from penetration alone. In fact, research<\/a> has found that 70 percent of women find sex more pleasurable and\/or more orgasmic when clitoral stimulation is part of sexual play. Given that, this hand-sex position can be a great way to help get your partner off.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n Additionally, because this position requires so much communication, it can encourage you to talk about your needs in and out of the bedroom, which can benefit your relationship overall.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n Creative copulators, this one\u2019s for you. The Baring the Scepter involves DIY-ing a vibrating penis ring. How? With your fingers.\u00a0<\/p>\n For this sex position, either partner will form a ring with their thumb and forefinger around the base of the penis and slightly pull down so the skin of the shaft is taut. If they can keep their hand there during intercourse, it\u2019s a sure way to make the penis in question harder and more sensitive.\u00a0<\/p>\n Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> Store-bought penis rings are widely lauded for their ability to slow blood flow out of the penis, resulting in a stiffy that is harder and longer lasting. This toy-free version, which can help achieve a similar outcome, is accessible to those who don\u2019t have a penis ring on hand.\u00a0<\/p>\n It\u2019s worth noting that while this particular position is geared towards improving erectile function, a rock-hard erection isn\u2019t necessary for pleasurable oral or hand sex.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n Whether you\u2019re flying solo or are showing your partner some of what you like, a solid go-to masturbation position (like grinding on a firm pillow or a toy) can be an excellent way to heighten pleasure. Set a rhythm that works and go to town.<\/p>\n Why It\u2019s Great: <\/strong>Straddling said pillow (or your lover\u2019s thigh, go off) makes this position is great for people with vulvas to get the friction they really want. It\u2019s a super simple yet effective position, especially if you don\u2019t have a cache of toys or tools at your disposal.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n You may know this position by its other less SFW name \u2014 \u201cface sitting\u201d \u2014 but Queening in Bondage is when a partner recieves oral stimulation while resting on or above their partner\u2019s mouth. Your weight can mostly held by your knees and thighs, so don\u2019t get too wound up about \u201ccrushing\u201d your partner \u2014 just make sure they feel comfortable communicating how much pressure is good from you on top!<\/p>\n Why It\u2019s Great: <\/strong>The power switch of this position is so enticing, and receiving partners will love getting to set the pace and pressure. Adding restraint play to position is yet another way to up the sensation and intensity of the scene or sexual encounter, allowing the receiving partner to really own the power of the pose (as pictured here) or offering an equally sexy subversion if you switch places.\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n As its apt name suggests, this sex position is to facilitate your sweeping-off-the-countertop (or desk) fantasies. The Countertop sex position can utilize just about any flat surface that is the right height for the penetrating partner. Find a sturdy surface and have the receiving partner lay or sit down. Then, get to work.\u00a0<\/p>\n Why It\u2019s Great<\/strong>: To start, the Countertop sex position allows you to act out some of your hot-hot-hot sexual fantasies in the kitchen, office, or board room. It also frees up both partners\u2019 hands for nipple and clitoral stimulation, hair pulling, or any other types of love touches.\u00a0<\/p>\n For the record: This position also works well for cunnilingus. The only difference is that during the oral sex variation, the giving partner will kneel before their partner, not stand.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n Because three is a lucky number, here\u2019s one additional sex position that\u2019s excellent for any flat surface. As with the previous two positions, the Happy Scissors set-up involves the receiving partner lying on a hip-height surface while the penetrating partner stands before them. The difference is that the laying partner should splay their legs and point their toes to the ceiling.\u00a0<\/p>\n Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> The open-legged position that marks Happy Scissors is seriously erotic. When on their back, the bottom partner essentially welcomes their partner to gaze into and fill their wide, open hole(s). The energy of this set-up can be exceptionally arousing for those interested in playing with power dynamics in bed, as the receiving position is a submission one.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n Also: This position gives access to all sorts of erogenous zones down the legs and feet. Who knows, maybe Happy Scissors is the excuse you\u2019ve been waiting for to try toe-sucking in bed.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n If your sexual motto is that deeper is better, the butterfly sex position is for you. This half-standing, half-laying sex position involves the receiving partner laying back on a slightly elevated surface (think: bed, table, countertop). Then, positioning their heels over the shoulder of the penetrating partner, who should assume an athletic stance before them before sliding in.\u00a0<\/p>\n Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> The Butterfly offers the standing partner a serious eye-full, making it ideal for visual learners. Meanwhile, the angle of the lying partner\u2019s hips allows them to achieve cervical stimulation. Not to mention, their hands are free for clitoral activities.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n For this seated sex position, you\u2019ll use your favorite armless chair (or any available surface) and have the receiving partner straddle the penetrating partner\u2019s lap, either face-to-face or front to back. The receiving partner can situate themselves however it feels comfortable, but feet planted on the floor are typically best as the ground can be used for leverage while thrusting. From there, they can rotate, bounce, and grind to their heart\u2019s content\u2014much as someone might during a lap dance.\u00a0<\/p>\n Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> Lap Dance allows for deep penetration and even deeper eye contact, making it ideal for those who enjoy cervical stimulation and intimacy. This position is a great alternative for standing sex positions for couples who are of different heights. Because the partner on top can do all the humping and bumping, Lap Dance is also accessible for wheelchair users and those with lower-body strength or mobility limitations.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n Something that almost always seems like a better idea in theory? Shower sex<\/a>. It\u2019s ideal for early morning quickies and keeping things clean, but depending on the shape of your shower and tub, and whether there\u2019s a possibility of roommates walking in on you (oops), this position can sometimes throw you for a loop. But if you lock your door and schedule some quiet time, it\u2019s definitely do-able.\u00a0<\/p>\n One position is ideal if you have a bench or a wider rim of your tub \u2014 have the penatrating partner keep both legs on the ground (they do need to keep their balance game together here!) while the partner being penetrated takes them from the front, lifting one leg up to wrap around their partner or to rest on the side of the tub. Just add water.<\/p>\n Why It\u2019s Great:\u00a0<\/strong>Done right, there\u2019s something so sleek and heady about getting intimate with all that water running down your body during shower sex. This simple position gives both partners the option to set the pace, and since you\u2019re already on your feet, it\u2019s easy to move to a drier area when the hot water runs out.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n Flip things around in this shower sex variation to keep the fun going. For this option, the partner being penetrated should brace themselves on an available wall as the penetrating partner enters from behind.<\/p>\n Why It\u2019s Great:\u00a0<\/strong>Shower sex is meant to be a hands-on activity, clearly \u2014 so the Soap\u2019n\u2019Grope standing position allows the penetrating partner to do a bit more exploring along with a sexy angle to enjoy. It\u2019s easily the dirtiest way to have good, clean fun.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n Entering into the kinky portion of our list, Hands Behind Ankles is a position that requires a comfortable pair of cuffs<\/a>, a good deal of flexibility, and some pre-game discussio<\/a>n. Make sure the partner being cuffed is comfortable, sort out safe words (a red, yellow, green stoplight system is cool but stopping when you hear \u201cstop\u201d is always a good place to start, NGL) and plan out some cozy aftercare<\/a>.\u00a0<\/p>\n Now on to the position: Sort of a Yoga meets hogtie move (unless you get a set up of cuffs that accomodate ankles, I suppose), you\u2019ll want to have the partner being penetrated\/cuffed lie down with their belly to the floor and bend their legs up. Reaching back for their feet, attach the cuffs around the wrists so they sit behind their ankles. With a little careful maneuvering, have the penetrating partner slide in between the receiving partner\u2019s back and ankles. (Or, when in doubt, bust out a toy!)<\/p>\n Why It\u2019s Great: <\/strong>If bondage is your cup of tea, you know how sexy a position like this can be. The receiving partner is especially vulnerable, bringing in a sensual trust and relinquishing of control. On the physical end, stretching and opening the penetrated partner\u2019s hips brings bit of extra blood to the pelvis, allowing for a highly stimulating experience.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n Looking for an excuse to whip out your under-mattress restraint sets or headboard-friendly cuffs<\/a> or invest in them? Consider this position. The Kinky Missionary is your standard missionary sex but with some added bondage. Here, you\u2019ll restrain your partner to the bed and approach missionary as usual.\u00a0<\/p>\n Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> This BDSM-beginner position should be one of the first positions you try out when breaking out the restraints. Why? The face-to-face configuration can provide a feeling of safety. Plus, the positioning allows you to use non-verbal facial cues \u2014 in addition to verbal ones \u2014 to suss out what your partner enjoys.\u00a0<\/p>\n More experienced kinksters will be happy to know that there are plenty<\/em> of ways to embrace power play<\/a> in this configuration. Blindfolds, dirty talk, and sensation play can all be used to intensify the agreed-upon power dynamic. So, take some time to talk to one another about what would feel the most exciting and don\u2019t hesitate to troubleshoot and adjust as you go, especially if it\u2019s your first time adding this kind of play to your sex life!<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n Standing sex positions can be an incredibly hot way to change things up if you and your partner find yourself in the same old positions time and time again. Add a pair of cuffs, like in this position, to really take things up a notch. It feels intuitive for the partner who wants to be cuffed to also be partner recieving \u2014 but not a requirement necessarily! Just make sure the partner recieving can adjust their leg; slung around the waist, butt, or thigh is a good place to start, but the un-cuffed partner should help support to get the optimal angle.<\/p>\n Why It\u2019s Great: <\/strong>This beginner-friendly bondage move makes you feel like you just dropped into a erotic movie scene<\/a>. The change of angle plus the cuffs just pushes all the right buttons! Just remember to check in and make sure restraints aren\u2019t too tight and that you switch things up when and if your cuffed partner gets tired (it happens!). Also: A solid pair of over the door cuffs (these from Unbound are comfy and cute<\/a>!) will be your best friend here.\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\n As its name suggests, this sex position will turn your car<\/a> into a Love Mobile. Hop into the back of your car for Backseat Driver and then have the receiving partner assume a straddling position.\u00a0<\/p>\n Why It\u2019s Great:<\/strong> Backseat Driver is a super customizable sex position. Depending on where you are, as well as what types of physical contact you\u2019re craving, while in position, you can snog the night away, have penetrative sex, or something else altogether.\u00a0<\/p>\n Just keep in mind that sexual activity in public is illegal in most states. To say nothing of the fact that it could land you on a sex offender registry in certain areas. With that, it\u2019s best to have car sex in a private driveway.<\/p>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\nDoggy Style<\/h2>\n
Pushing Tush<\/h2>\n
Rocking Horse<\/h2>\n
Seated Scissors<\/h2>\n
Spooning<\/h2>\n
Scissoring<\/h2>\n
\t<\/figure>\nBend Over, Baby<\/h2>\n
Scissors<\/h2>\n
Non-Penetrative Sex Positions<\/h2>\n
\t<\/figure>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\nUncloak the Clitoris<\/h2>\n
Baring the Scepter<\/h2>\n
Self-Loving (On Your Knees)<\/h2>\n
Queening in Bondage<\/h2>\n
Elevated Sex Positions<\/h2>\n
\t<\/figure>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\nCountertop<\/h2>\n
Happy Scissors<\/h2>\n
The Butterfly<\/h2>\n
Lap Dance<\/h2>\n
\t<\/figure>\nShower Sex Positions<\/h2>\n
\t<\/figure>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\nStanding Up Full-Frontal<\/h2>\n
Soap\u2019n\u2019Grope<\/h2>\n
Bondage Sex Positions<\/h2>\n
\t<\/figure>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\nHands Behind Ankles<\/h2>\n
The Kinky Missionary<\/h2>\n
Standing Room Only<\/h2>\n
Car Sex Positions<\/h2>\n
\t<\/figure>\n<\/article>\n<\/li>\nBackseat Driver<\/h2>\n
Belt Bondage<\/h2>\n
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