{"id":3823,"date":"2026-09-28T15:19:57","date_gmt":"2026-09-28T15:19:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/drsoniafawad.com\/?p=3823"},"modified":"2026-09-28T15:19:57","modified_gmt":"2026-09-28T15:19:57","slug":"women-physicians-should-not-feel-guilty-for-starting-a-family","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/drsoniafawad.com\/?p=3823","title":{"rendered":"Women physicians should not feel guilty for starting a family"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div data-component=\"ArticleContent\">\n<div class=\"article__below-title\">\n<div class=\" article__posted-date\">\n<p>September 28, 2026<\/p>\n<p>30 min watch<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"mobile-trust-box\">\n<div class=\"row\">\n<div class=\"col-12 col-md-5 d-xl-none\">\n<div class=\"trust-box\">\n<div class=\"trust-box-logo d-none d-md-block\">\n            <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.healio.com\/~\/media\/h5\/feature\/news\/publogos\/osn.svg?la=en&amp;h=32&amp;w=145&amp;hash=C099A5ADC410818ECDF2097A4CD3C51F\" class=\"logo-img\" height=\"32\" alt=\"occular surgery news logo\" width=\"145\"\/>\n          <\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"col-12 col-md-6 offset-md-1 offset-xl-0 col-xl-12\">\n<div class=\"email-alert-button-wrapper d-none\" data-component=\"EmailTopicAlert\" data-module=\"Subspecialty Email Topic Alerts\" data-manage-email-link=\"\/footer\/account-information\/my-account\/email-subscriptions-and-alerts#emailAlerts\">\n  <hidden data-setting-item=\"d265901d-6d37-49c7-a8f6-c7bf19a02509\"\/><br \/>\n  <hidden data-crm-source=\"Subspecialty Topic Alert\"\/><\/p>\n<div class=\"email-alert-button d-none\" data-topic-button=\"not-subscribed\">\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n      <span data-module-track-action=\"\" data-module-track-label=\"\">&#13;<br \/>\n        <i class=\"fas fa-plus-circle\"\/>&#13;<br \/>\n        Add topic to email alerts&#13;<br \/>\n      <\/span>&#13;\n    <\/p>\n<div class=\"email-alert-inner collapse uf559976177cd4ad6bf393bba1e35db55\">\n<div class=\"email-alert-dialogue\">\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n          Receive an email when new articles are posted on <span data-content=\"topic-title\"\/>&#13;\n        <\/p>\n<div class=\"d-none\" data-sign-up-type=\"unknown\">\n          Please provide your email address to receive an email when new articles are posted on <span data-content=\"topic-title\"\/>.<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p>      <button type=\"button\" class=\"btn btn-primary\" data-loading-text=\"Loading &lt;i class=\" fa=\"\" fa-spinner=\"\" fa-spin=\"\">&#8220;&#13;<br \/>\n              data-action=&#8221;subscribe&#8221;&gt;&#13;<br \/>\n        Subscribe&#13;<br \/>\n      <\/button>\n    <\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"d-none\" data-topic-modal=\"failed\">    <strong>We were unable to process your request. Please try again later. If you continue to have this issue please contact <a href=\"https:\/\/www.healio.com\/news\/ophthalmology\/20260928\/mailto:customerservice@slackinc.com\">customerservice@slackinc.com<\/a>.<\/strong>  <\/p>\n<p><button data-dismiss=\"modal\" class=\"btn btn-primary btn-lg btn-block\">Back to Healio<\/button><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h2>Key takeaways:<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>As a busy ophthalmologist, the only good time to start a family is when it is right for you.<\/li>\n<li>A strong mentor-mentee relationship can build a solid foundation for a career in pediatric ophthalmology.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>There is no perfect time to <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healio.com\/news\/ophthalmology\/20260420\/blog-between-two-worlds-motherhood-and-the-microscope\" id=\"rId8\" target=\"_blank\">start a family as a busy ophthalmologist<\/a>. However, motherhood is an important job, and women in medicine should never feel the need to apologize for it.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSomeone said to me, \u2018There is no good time to have a baby except for when it\u2019s the right time for you.\u2019 It\u2019s always going to be hard at work, and you\u2019re never going to get brownie points for not having a child,\u201d <b>Laura <\/b><b>B. <\/b><b>Enyedi, MD,<\/b><b> <\/b>of Duke University, said in this episode of Steeped Insights, a video blog series produced by Women in Ophthalmology and Healio. \u201cThe important thing is to have your family when it is right for your family. Fertility sometimes becomes the first thing as type A women that we cannot control.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"article__video-player\">&#13;<br \/>\n&#13;<br \/>\n&#13;<br \/>\n    <span class=\"\">&#13;<br \/>\n      <video-js class=\"vjs-fluid\" controls=\"\" data-account=\"1866680400001\" data-application-id=\"\" data-embed=\"default\" data-player=\"1pRc4aob8\" data-playlist-id=\"\" data-video-id=\"6405729540112\" id=\"Vbb9eee0b_6f48_4da4_af2d_003a351616d6_6405729540112\">&#13;<br \/>\n      <\/video-js>&#13;<br \/>\n      &#13;<br \/>\n    <\/span>&#13;<\/p>\n<figure class=\"av-figure\" data-video-id=\"Vbb9eee0b_6f48_4da4_af2d_003a351616d6_6405729540112\">&#13;<figcaption class=\"figure-caption\">&#13;<br \/>\n          In this episode of Steeped Insights, host Karen Chen, MD, and cohost Laura B. Enyedi, MD, sit down with Lindsay M. De Andrade, MD, of University of Iowa Heath Care, to discuss starting a family and challenges of pediatric ophthalmology.&#13;<br \/>\n        <\/figcaption>&#13;<br \/>\n      <\/figure>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n    &#13;<br \/>\n&#13;<br \/>\n&#13;<br \/>\n&#13;<br \/>\n&#13;<br \/>\n&#13;\n<\/p>\n<p>Over a cup of tea, host <b>Karen Chen, MD, <\/b>of<b> <\/b>Permanente Medical Group, and Enyedi<b> <\/b>sat down with <b>Lindsay<\/b><b> M.<\/b><b> De Andrade, MD,<\/b> a pediatric ophthalmologist at University of Iowa Health Care, to discuss why De Andrade decided to pivot to ophthalmology at the end of her third year of medical school. While rewarding, <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healio.com\/news\/ophthalmology\/20260302\/virtual-reality-has-a-place-in-pediatric-ophthalmology\" id=\"rId9\" target=\"_blank\">treating pediatric patients<\/a> requires a high level of clinical confidence in the face of the unknown.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI think a lot of times, people say, \u2018You\u2019re so sweet. You should be a pediatric ophthalmologist,\u2019\u201d Enyedi said. \u201cHowever, I always say, \u2018Wow, you\u2019re really smart. You want to take on all of ophthalmology and be quite comprehensive. You want a large variety of surgeries. And you want to be a problem solver who makes a difference in the lives of both children and adults. You should be a pediatric ophthalmologist. Not because you\u2019re cute and sweet.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The physicians also highlighted common daily challenges of pediatric medicine, including short windows of patient cooperation and complex parent dynamics, as well as how the power of good mentorship often extends beyond the clinic, especially when built on a foundation of genuine connection rather than transaction.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI remember feeling so nervous with each of my kids about telling people that I was pregnant and worrying about the burden I was putting on people, which is crazy,\u201d De Andrade said. \u201cYou are having children to help make this world a better place, and being a mother is a really important job. The fact that we worry about telling people that is crazy.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2>For more information: <\/h2>\n<p>      <b>Lindsay<\/b><b> M.<\/b><b> De Andrade, MD<\/b><b>, <\/b>can be reached at <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healio.com\/news\/ophthalmology\/20260928\/mailto:lindsaymdeandrade@gmail.com\" id=\"rId10\" target=\"_blank\">lindsaymdeandrade@gmail.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>      <b>Karen Chen, MD,<\/b> can be reached at <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healio.com\/news\/ophthalmology\/20260928\/mailto:karen.willa.chen@gmail.com\" id=\"rId11\" target=\"_blank\">karen.willa.chen@gmail.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>      <b>Laura <\/b><b>B. <\/b><b>Enyedi, MD<\/b><b>, <\/b>can be reached at <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healio.com\/news\/ophthalmology\/20260928\/mailto:laura.enyedi@duke.edu\" id=\"rId12\" target=\"_blank\">laura.enyedi@duke.edu<\/a>.<\/p>\n<div class=\"article__content--footer\">\n<div class=\"publisher-logo\">\n    <span>Published by:<\/span><br \/>\n    <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.healio.com\/~\/media\/h5\/feature\/news\/publogos\/osn.svg?la=en&amp;h=32&amp;w=145&amp;hash=C099A5ADC410818ECDF2097A4CD3C51F\" class=\"logo-img\" height=\"32\" alt=\"occular surgery news logo\" width=\"145\"\/>\n  <\/div>\n<div class=\"sources-references-disclosures\">\n<h3>Sources\/Disclosures<\/h3>\n<h2> Source: <\/h2>\n<p class=\"citation\">Healio Interviews<\/p>\n<div class=\"disclosures\">\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n        <strong> Disclosures: <\/strong>&#13;<br \/>\n        No products or companies that would require financial disclosure are mentioned in this article.&#13;\n      <\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- Healio AI Widget --><\/p>\n<div class=\"healio-ai-component-inline\" data-no-ads=\"true\" data-module-track-category=\"Healio AI\" data-module-track-action=\"Click\" data-module-track-label=\"Access Healio Ai from component - News_AI Component - In-Content (all devices)\">\n<div class=\"healio-ai-content\">\n    <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/m3.healio.com\/~\/media\/images\/healio-ai\/healio-ai_logo.svg\" alt=\"Healio AI\" class=\"healio-ai-logo\"\/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ask a clinical question<\/strong> and tap into <strong>Healio AI&#8217;s knowledge<\/strong> base.<\/p>\n<ul>&#13;<\/p>\n<li>PubMed, enrolling\/recruiting trials, guidelines<\/li>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<li>Clinical Guidance, Healio CME, FDA news<\/li>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<li>Healio&#8217;s exclusive daily news coverage of clinical data<\/li>\n<p>&#13;\n    <\/ul>\n<p>    <button class=\"healio-ai-button\" onclick=\"window.location.href=\" https:=\"\">Learn more<\/button>\n  <\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"email-alert-button-wrapper d-none\" data-component=\"EmailTopicAlert\" data-module=\"Subspecialty Email Topic Alerts\" data-manage-email-link=\"\/footer\/account-information\/my-account\/email-subscriptions-and-alerts#emailAlerts\">\n  <hidden data-setting-item=\"d265901d-6d37-49c7-a8f6-c7bf19a02509\"\/><br \/>\n  <hidden data-crm-source=\"Subspecialty Topic Alert\"\/><\/p>\n<div class=\"email-alert-button d-none\" data-topic-button=\"not-subscribed\">\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n      <span data-module-track-action=\"\" data-module-track-label=\"\">&#13;<br \/>\n        <i class=\"fas fa-plus-circle\"\/>&#13;<br \/>\n        Add topic to email alerts&#13;<br \/>\n      <\/span>&#13;\n    <\/p>\n<div class=\"email-alert-inner collapse uf559976177cd4ad6bf393bba1e35db55\">\n<div class=\"email-alert-dialogue\">\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n          Receive an email when new articles are posted on <span data-content=\"topic-title\"\/>&#13;\n        <\/p>\n<div class=\"d-none\" data-sign-up-type=\"unknown\">\n          Please provide your email address to receive an email when new articles are posted on <span data-content=\"topic-title\"\/>.<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p>      <button type=\"button\" class=\"btn btn-primary\" data-loading-text=\"Loading &lt;i class=\" fa=\"\" fa-spinner=\"\" fa-spin=\"\">&#8220;&#13;<br \/>\n              data-action=&#8221;subscribe&#8221;&gt;&#13;<br \/>\n        Subscribe&#13;<br \/>\n      <\/button>\n    <\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"d-none\" data-topic-modal=\"failed\">    <strong>We were unable to process your request. 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If you continue to have this issue please contact customerservice@slackinc.com. Back to Healio Key takeaways: As a busy ophthalmologist, the only good time to start a family is when it is right for you. A strong mentor-mentee relationship can build a solid foundation for a career in pediatric ophthalmology. There is no perfect time to start a family as a busy ophthalmologist. However, motherhood is an important job, and women in medicine should never feel the need to apologize for it. \u201cSomeone said to me, \u2018There is no good time to have a baby except for when it\u2019s the right time for you.\u2019 It\u2019s always going to be hard at work, and you\u2019re never going to get brownie points for not having a child,\u201d Laura B. Enyedi, MD, of Duke University, said in this episode of Steeped Insights, a video blog series produced by Women in Ophthalmology and Healio. \u201cThe important thing is to have your family when it is right for your family. Fertility sometimes becomes the first thing as type A women that we cannot control.\u201d &#13; &#13; &#13; &#13; &#13; &#13; &#13; &#13; &#13;&#13; In this episode of Steeped Insights, host Karen Chen, MD, and cohost Laura B. Enyedi, MD, sit down with Lindsay M. De Andrade, MD, of University of Iowa Heath Care, to discuss starting a family and challenges of pediatric ophthalmology.&#13; &#13; &#13; &#13; &#13; &#13; &#13; &#13; &#13; Over a cup of tea, host Karen Chen, MD, of Permanente Medical Group, and Enyedi sat down with Lindsay M. De Andrade, MD, a pediatric ophthalmologist at University of Iowa Health Care, to discuss why De Andrade decided to pivot to ophthalmology at the end of her third year of medical school. While rewarding, treating pediatric patients requires a high level of clinical confidence in the face of the unknown. \u201cI think a lot of times, people say, \u2018You\u2019re so sweet. You should be a pediatric ophthalmologist,\u2019\u201d Enyedi said. \u201cHowever, I always say, \u2018Wow, you\u2019re really smart. You want to take on all of ophthalmology and be quite comprehensive. You want a large variety of surgeries. And you want to be a problem solver who makes a difference in the lives of both children and adults. You should be a pediatric ophthalmologist. Not because you\u2019re cute and sweet.\u2019\u201d The physicians also highlighted common daily challenges of pediatric medicine, including short windows of patient cooperation and complex parent dynamics, as well as how the power of good mentorship often extends beyond the clinic, especially when built on a foundation of genuine connection rather than transaction. \u201cI remember feeling so nervous with each of my kids about telling people that I was pregnant and worrying about the burden I was putting on people, which is crazy,\u201d De Andrade said. \u201cYou are having children to help make this world a better place, and being a mother is a really important job. The fact that we worry about telling people that is crazy.\u201d For more information: Lindsay M. De Andrade, MD, can be reached at lindsaymdeandrade@gmail.com. Karen Chen, MD, can be reached at karen.willa.chen@gmail.com. Laura B. Enyedi, MD, can be reached at laura.enyedi@duke.edu. 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